Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Letting your wife be the woman, and showing her appreciation
Couples Smiling Together and showing Appreciation

You married that woman because you were attracted to her differences, including the fact that she cared enough to ask you questions about yourself and your day. So let her be different. Allow her to be the communications expert she naturally is. Yes, she may be fussy about details and sometimes have bad timing—like in the middle of the football game—but that fussiness and commitment to improving your relationship make her who she is. It is part of that mystique you fell in love with in the first place.

A man has to accept a woman’s top needs—for affection, communication, and commitment—and learn how to read her. The prevailing winds of a woman change every day, and even from hour to hour. A man who can adjust to those changes, approach her sensitively, meet her needs, and ensure she feels loved, creates the environment of warmth a woman craves.

In short, let her be a woman. Take her out for a nice dinner. Show your appreciation of her femininity when she dresses up for you. Whistle at her and touch those curves, showing that you still desire her. Surprise her with an appointment for a haircut or a facial, and don’t wince when you see the bill. Smile and compliment her on how beautiful she looks.

What we fail to realize is that expressing gratitude benefits both partners in the relationship—the recipient and the giver. When you give appreciation, you often receive even more in return. Every day is filled with wonderful opportunities to tell the special person in your life, how grateful you are for this relationship.

If you have something you do that helps you express your appreciation for your wife, please share those in the comments. Ladies, you are welcome to also share something your husband has said or done for you that helps you know how appreciative he is of you.

God commands us to love our wife as our own body

Ephesians 5:25, 28, 31 “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; …So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. …For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.”

We should honor and value our wife because she is a precious treasure

Proverbs 31:10 “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”

Rumishael Ulomi is a Freelance Christian Consultant, Life Coach, and Motivational Speaker in the areas of Christian Ministry, Business, Entrepreneurship, and Social Sector development residing in Moshi,Tanzania.


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